As I read the sympathetic messages from aunts, parents, Rotarians and friends in regards to my last post, I begin to reflect again on my essay on indigenous conflict resolution in Africa. One of the characteristics of indigenous approaches to conflict resolution across the continent is the role of elders. Now ‘elder’ is not necessarily a flattering term in the Western context, but in Africa it invokes wisdom, generosity and respect. So with that impression of elders in my mind I start to reflect on the elders in my life.
Though I grew up in the West, there certainly was a ‘tribe’ of elders (you know who you are) who gathered nearly weekly around a dinner table, good food and multiple bottles of wine to share stories, opinions, and yes even wisdom. Visiting family included a similar ritual, and somehow as the hours vanished in the chit chat based on full tummies and the warmth of wine I think I learned something – I certainly gleaned a great deal of support, encouragement and what we in the peace studies field call ‘empowerment.’
As I’ve left home I’ve never left that support behind – though the ritual of dinners and drinks isn’t possible, the virtual support is still there. Plus, here in Bradford I’ve found a new tribe of elders to rely on – Rotarians, professors and friends.
In the African context, Elders guide the young, cool passions and are the voice of experience. For sure my Elders offer the same service, and when I get down and angry I’m glad their encouragement and empowerment is there. Plus it is nice when I can relate to what I'm studying : )
Though I grew up in the West, there certainly was a ‘tribe’ of elders (you know who you are) who gathered nearly weekly around a dinner table, good food and multiple bottles of wine to share stories, opinions, and yes even wisdom. Visiting family included a similar ritual, and somehow as the hours vanished in the chit chat based on full tummies and the warmth of wine I think I learned something – I certainly gleaned a great deal of support, encouragement and what we in the peace studies field call ‘empowerment.’
As I’ve left home I’ve never left that support behind – though the ritual of dinners and drinks isn’t possible, the virtual support is still there. Plus, here in Bradford I’ve found a new tribe of elders to rely on – Rotarians, professors and friends.
In the African context, Elders guide the young, cool passions and are the voice of experience. For sure my Elders offer the same service, and when I get down and angry I’m glad their encouragement and empowerment is there. Plus it is nice when I can relate to what I'm studying : )
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